Don't Judge At a Glance.!!

Care for the ones who love you and pray for the ones who hate you. I forgot whose words were these but it's great. For the first time, I am writing things that I had to face most of the time and also you might have faced it too or might be facing it most of the time. 

Who the hell are we to judge someone's life just by seeing them or to talk about someone just by seeing them. It is very easy for us to talk about someone or to judge them just by seeing. DO WE REALLY THINK WE HAVE SOME NATURAL POWER TO FIND OUT SOMETHING JUST BY SEEING?  

Most of you might always hear why are you growing beard, long hair, or why are you not doing any job, or in case of girls why are you dieting, why were you late or where were you the other day or with whom. People keep asking me, are you trying to be a Muslim or are you being sainted just by seeing my growing beard but what's wrong is with you? What kind of mentality are you carrying? Do you even have any idea what are you talking about or where you are linking these things? Are you high? How can a person with a big beard become a Muslim or how can a person with a beard and long hair become a saint? I do think you must consult a psychiatrist as soon as possible.

I don't know what's wrong with the people around us? They have a full detail or they might know everything (as per their perspective and from their point of view) about their neighbor's child but are unaware of their own child. They might be judging or talking about their neighbor's child on his/her relationships, friends circle or whatever, but are unaware of their own child's relationships or friends circle and also they think their children are the most innocent kids in the world (maybe they might be innocent but it doesn't mean you should talk and judge someone from your perspective only and who knows when can time change and how will you tolerate the judges and the talks about your own child?) Not only in this case but in every situation and case, you should not judge anyone based on your perspective without knowing their condition because time is never on one's favor only, keep this in mind. 


Nobody is fully aware of what's going in one's life cause time is never constant and everyone's life keeps changing. Let me put an example of my own and how some people judge me on the same thing which happened almost 4/5 years ago. It's strange but as truth is always bitter so does the mentality of some people. I had a breakup or you can say my heart was broken back in 2015, but what some of my friends or some people believe that I haven't moved on and I am still the same boy who dedicates status or posts for her or that "Dhuki Atma" type just by seeing my growing beard or just by seeing me writing blogs. I don't know that are they in the 21st century or they are back in the 90's or '80s. One of my juniors once asked me why I am keeping my beard long, I just said I love keeping it long and he was like I don't believe you. I just know that people who had a breakup or are Dhuki Atma type keeps it long. I didn't say anything to him at that moment because debating and discussion should always be done with the wise man. 

This was an experience only but there are a lot of factors where people keep judging you. I was talking with one of my friends and I just loved a thing that she mentioned. Dating number of boys is not a bad thing. You are just dating, you are just interacting for the first time face to face with coffees or dinner and trying to know each other. And if you don't like them that's okay. But what some people do is they will judge you on the basis of a number of dates you did. But guys if you don't like a person it's literally okay to date the other person, it's not a bad thing until and unless you are not in a relationship or don't like anyone. 

And the most shocking thing to know will be that people will keep judging you even if you have achieved some good heights in life or even if you are doing great with life and even if you have created the history, they will never stop judging you or stop gossiping about you. IF YOU ARE DOING WRONG OR DOING NOTHING, OR EVEN IF YOU ARE DOING RIGHT OR DOING GREAT, THERE WILL BE SOME PEOPLE WHO WILL JUDGE YOU.! Because they don't have any stuff to do in their life.    

"The weaker you are the louder you bark." (-Tenten) Let them bark at you. There is nothing you can do about them because they are weaker and they don't have anything to do and also they don't know you and about your situation, so it's best not to explain anything with an unwise person and waste your time. Let them bark.!! AND PRAY FOR THEM.!!!

World Day of Remembrance

A person who is born today has to die one or the other day, it's natural. But an unconditional death in any accidents are more painful than the natural death. There is a saying When death comes, nothing can stop it, but it doesn't mean we should be careless about our lives and the others and let a person die in a road accident thinking their death has come and I can't stop it instead of taking them to hospital. 

• EVERY 24 SECONDS SOMEONE DIES ON THE ROAD ACCIDENT.
• Every year 1.35 million die in a road accident in the world. 
• 20-50 million are disabled or injured.
• 8th leading cause of deaths.
• 1st cause of death among children aged 5-14 and among young adults aged 15-29.
• Death of 3% of cyclist, 23% of pedestrians and 28% of motorcyclists.

In context of Nepal in last five years (2013/18), road accidents had claimed 9,000 lives. 

These facts and rates of road accidents and deaths will keep increasing until  and unless the roads will not be maintained, drivers health, knowledge, skills, attitude and psychology will not be considered an important factor for road accidents and strict rules and regulations will not be implemented and applied efficiently.   

It is not that easy for a person or a family to lose their loved ones in any road accidents because road accidents are uncertain events in life which can even happen when you are fully aware but the next person was driving unconsciously. On The World Day of Remembrance, I would like to sympathize with the parents, family, and every individual who lose their loved ones in a road accident. Also would like to request each one of us to stay focused and drive, ride or walk properly because your life is not only yours, it is of your parents, family and every individual who loves you. Your life is precious to everyone who loves you. 

Normal speed meets every need. 

Women Empowerment

"Educate a man and you educate an individual. Educate a woman and you educate a family". (-A. Cripps)

"Women Empowerment". What is women's empowerment? Before writing this blog, I asked a few of my female colleagues and also a few male colleagues about their perception on women empowerment. First of all, I would love to share their views and then I will be sharing my personal level of thoughts on this powerful topic.

• Women Empowerment is not just about being independent or having knowledge; its something needed for the whole of mankind. One of my female colleagues gave me an example that if both husband and wife are working and when they are back home at night, why should only wife go to the kitchen and cook? As per her, until and unless this culture doesn't change, there is no women empowerment.

• Many people think women's empowerment is a war that we are fighting against men in order to prove to them that we are superiors to them. But she(the other female colleague) believes women's empowerment is not a gender war as it is assumed to be. Empowerment is basically realizing that both men and women have their own strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes and inborn propensities. Women empowerment is the process by which women empower each other. We start to stand up for each other and help each other. It is a way of saying to the world that women are equal to men and women are standing up for themselves.

• According to one of my male friends, he thinks women should be trained and groomed then allowed to fight in open competition. The quota system is kind of unfair to the best for the job. Encouraging women with free coaching facilities might help them to participate. But there should not be any discrimination in any kind of competition or work, the best candidate should be selected. And in case of any physical competitions, it should be divided into criteria i.e. criteria for men and different criteria for women.

• Women's empowerment is basically about promoting equality through equity. It is a known fact that patriarchy has been prominent throughout history. Due to the evolution of the concept of women empowerment women have received what is known as basic human rights and are stepping forth into the mainstream.

I would firstly like to thank these friends who shared their views on women's empowerment. I do agree with each one of them. Now I would love to add a few more personal views about women empowerment.

Women empowerment is the process of giving women equal rights. When I say giving them equal rights, I mean right to education, right to awareness, right to make their own choice, right to proper healthcare, sanitation, right to work, right to make a decision, right to equality and right to live freely. You might be shocked knowing that in some parts of the world, women don't have access to even basic things like water, healthcare, sanitation, and education. Education with awareness is the most important means of empowering women because most of the educated people are involved in violence without being aware of the real value of a woman.

We also have a proud history of women leaders from all works of life Anuradha Koirala to Pasang Lhamu Sherpa to Mother Teresa and Madam Curie. Their work makes us believe that the world is full of possibilities. A world where women have equal opportunities and the world that is better not just for women but for everyone. I guess every individual reading this, will definitely agree with me when I say that women don't need any kind of favor or help from male counterparts or reservation from the government. They are strong, intelligent and capable enough to achieve from life whatever they want, the way they want. What they actually need is genuine love and support from male counterparts. If empowerment is done in the right way, it will not only help Women, it will help the whole of mankind.

Future With Biotech & Infotech

Firstly I would like to thank our President of Behbood The Society Mr. Vachan Anand Sir for recommending me such a great book, "21 Lessons for the 21st Century". I have just started reading it and have completed a lesson and that lesson made me think about it and now I am writing about the same.

The following lines from the book are really amazing: -

We, humans, have learned to control the world outside us, but we had very little control over the world inside us. We knew how to build a dam and stop a river from flowing, but we did not know how to stop the body from ageing. We knew how to design an irrigation system, but we had no idea how to design a brain. If mosquitoes buzzed in our ears and disturbed our sleep, we knew how to kill mosquitoes; but if a thought buzzed in our mind and kept us awake at night, most of us did not know how to kill the thought.

Also we, humans, are too good at inventing and discovering technologies and things. We have discovered things like AI (Artifical Intelligence) which works and react like humans, blockchain a system in which a record of transactions made in bitcoins or another cryptocurrency are maintained across several computers that are linked in a peer-to-peer network. And also the revolutions of biotech and infotech will give us control of the world inside us. We can learn how to design the brain, extend lives and also how to kill the thoughts that are disturbing us. But none of us are aware of the consequences. As per the author of the book, "Yuval Noah Harari", humans were always far better at inventing tools than using them wisely. It is easy to construct a dam than to predict all the consequences this will have for the wider ecological system. Similarly, it will be easy to kill the thoughts that are disturbing us than to divine what it will do to our personal psychology. 

We are too forward in inventing and discovering things that we are being blind when it comes to knowing the consequences. Let me talk about AI and Blockchain. There are a lot of automated restaurants or robotic restaurants around us. As per an article in The Guardian the British daily newspaper, restaurants are now employing robots which means human jobs are in danger. According to a report by Chloe Taylor a News Assistant at CNBC, "Robots could take over 20 million jobs by 2030, study claims". Researchers predicted the rise of robots will bring about benefits in terms of productivity and economic growth, they also acknowledged the drawbacks that were expected to arise simultaneously. Researchers suggested that governments could incentivize companies and workers with financial benefits for engaging in local programs to retrain workers. They also called on policymakers to develop “aggressive, forward-thinking programs” to counteract the negative impacts of automation. 

Blockchain is a system in which a record of transactions made in bitcoins or another cryptocurrency is maintained across several computers that are linked in a peer-to-peer network. Though they are having a good amount of benefits, it is complex technology. Transactions are not made in monetary forms, so they might completely revamp the monetary system. 

These technological revolutions might make our lives easy and better but AI might soon push billions of humans out of the job market and create a massive new useless class. And also when we learn how to control the world outside us and inside us, we should also learn to predict the possible consequences and ways to control it in time.

"Success in creating AI would be the biggest event in human history. Unfortunately, it might also be the last, unless we learn how to avoid the risks".

                                                                                       -Stephen Hawking      

       

Depression

According to WHO,

• Globally more than 300 million people of all ages suffer from depression.
• Mild depression causes physical illness with many symptoms than just an unhappy mood.
• At its worst, severe depression can lead to suicide.
• Roughly 30% of people who misuse drugs or alcohol also suffer from depression. 

I don't really think it's necessary to define depression in detail as it is one of the hot topics in today's time and you must have got some idea what it is and its consequences. So I won't make it a boring blog but will add a real-life example where how one of my friends dealt with depression and also will include some facts, tips, solutions, and a suggestion at last.

Depression is a common illness worldwide with more than 300 million affected. Depression varies from person to person. Some people are able to identify the symptoms and are able to be cured at the proper time but most times, people are unable to identify the symptoms or sometimes they just want to get out of it by being addicted to some kind of drugs or alcohol and end their life. Drugs and alcohol are not a permanent solution, they only provide short-term pleasures and harm your body in the long run. So, worst-case scenario, depression can lead to suicide. Close to 800,000 people die due to suicide every year and suicide is the second leading cause of death in 15-29-years-old as per WHO report.

Sometimes most people combine sadness and depression together and assume they are the same. But let me make them clear that sadness is a part of being human, a natural reaction of a painful situation. Every one of us experiences sadness at some point in our lives. Whereas depression is an illness with more symptoms than an unhappy mood like persistent feelings of sadness or empty, hopeless, helpless, loss of interest in activities once you enjoyed, having trouble in concentration, memory, and decision-making 

According to Nancy Schimelpfening, Administrator for a non-profit depression support group, having a parent and grandparent with depression doubles the risk of depression, suggesting that genetics plays a big role. The rate of depression is also higher among those who have a history of substance use; roughly 30% of people who misuse drugs or alcohol also suffer from depression. Other factors linked to depression include brain chemistry imbalances, hormones, seasonal changes, stress, and trauma.

These were some of the facts and findings related to depression, now I will present the real-life example of a friend that dealt with depression.

There is a famous statement that "Luck bina discount k Nahi milta lakin bad luck bonus k sath milta hai". Something similar happened to that friend. Adulthood was hitting him so hard and at the very same time he fell in love with someone and everyone reading this might have experienced that when you truly love someone and if that's your first love, it is everything for you. So did he. He made her everything. He was so deeply in love with her that he forgot everything. He forgot what responsibilities were and he even forgot what family was to him. It sounds weird but it is true. And when the sweet love story comes to an END and when everything is taken away, obviously you will be out of your mind so did he. He became a victim of depression, which as we have already established, is not a good thing. It was the darkest part of his life. A girl whom he loved the most dumped him very badly. And as a result, to overcome this pain he was addicted to drugs and alcohol which now he realizes was a bad choice. It was just giving him short-term pleasure and harming the body for the long-term. He also consulted the psychiatrist and his parents were willing to do whatever it takes to help him fight and get his life back. But still, he was struggling and coping with life with no faith in himself and life. And then a person came into his life and changed everything. That person helped him to realize that he was never a looser and he had much more then he could offer. That person helped him like nothing else has ever done. And now when he looked back he feels like he was wasting his time in all the wrong things in life. 

Sometimes you don't really need any medication or any consultant but you just need a person with whom you feel good, whom you can trust and who is there for you in the hardest time and also with whom you can pour your heart out comfortably. Don't just choose the wrong thing and be addicted to short-term things that are harming your body in the long run. And if you just can't trust anyone then please let your parents know what you are going through and also if it doesn't work, consult a psychiatrist.

Life of a friend

No one will ever mention that they are from a bad family background so do I 😆. But literally, I am from a respectful family of NEPAL. I spent my childhood in Nepal itself and it was really amazing. But as you all are well aware that amazing times are in one's life are just for a few moments as the bad times. So at a very young age, I had to come to India and it was difficult for me to understand things as a kid. It was very difficult for me to accept the fact that the amazing days were just like nightmares. I was going through things that I never thought of. I just want to adore my parents for growing me up as a privileged kid by putting their blood and sweat. I just can't explain how blissful I'm to have such great parents. 

There is a famous statement that "Luck bina discount k Nahi milta lakin bad luck bonus k sath milta hai". Something similar to this happens to me. Adulthood was hitting me hard and at the very same time I fell in love with someone and everyone reading this might have experienced that when you truly love someone and if that's your first love, it is everything for you. So do I. I made her my everything. I was so deeply in love with her that I forgot everything. I forgot what responsibilities were and I even forgot what family was to me. It sounds weird right but it is true. I forgot what would my future be, what my career would be as love with her was everything at that moment. And as I had mentioned that good times are just for a moment, the sweet love story comes to an END and when everything is taken away, obviously you will be out of your mind and I became the victim of depression. I wasted a huge chunk of my life, time and disappointed my parents.

Being a victim of depression is really a bad thing one can ever experience. It was the darkest part of my life. A girl whom I loved the most dumbed my very badly and I was addicted to alcohol. I also consulted the psychiatrist. I became an alcoholic to overcome this pain but it was a wrong choice. It was harming my body while giving short-term pleasure. My parents supported me and were willing to do whatever it takes to help me fight back life. But still, I was struggling and coping with life with no faith in myself and life. But as always bad times are also in one's life just for a few moments, I found someone whom I want to address by the fifth season for me. My life was like a loop of the four seasons and someone far very far the person came into my life as the fifth season and changed my life like nothing has ever done. He made me realized the true meaning of love. He not only helped me to overcome my depression but also helped me to realize that I was never a looser and I had much more then I could offer. He made me a man again, motivated and uplifted me and also taught me how to get back into my feet again. Finally, I am above all that like a phoenix rising from the ash, I am now cherishing life, reflecting on my actions working my ass off to make my family proud and making up to the time which I wasted. 

When I look back I feel I was wasting my time in all the wrong things in life. I am really grateful for the person who helped me entirely get back to life. There are four seasons in the world and in everyone's life but I am blessed to have the fifth season in my life. Thank you, boss, for everything. 

         

     

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