Care for the ones who love you and pray for the ones who hate you. I forgot whose words were these but it's great. For the first time, I am writing things that I had to face most of the time and also you might have faced it too or might be facing it most of the time.
Who the hell are we to judge someone's life just by seeing them or to talk about someone just by seeing them. It is very easy for us to talk about someone or to judge them just by seeing. DO WE REALLY THINK WE HAVE SOME NATURAL POWER TO FIND OUT SOMETHING JUST BY SEEING?
Most of you might always hear why are you growing beard, long hair, or why are you not doing any job, or in case of girls why are you dieting, why were you late or where were you the other day or with whom. People keep asking me, are you trying to be a Muslim or are you being sainted just by seeing my growing beard but what's wrong is with you? What kind of mentality are you carrying? Do you even have any idea what are you talking about or where you are linking these things? Are you high? How can a person with a big beard become a Muslim or how can a person with a beard and long hair become a saint? I do think you must consult a psychiatrist as soon as possible.
I don't know what's wrong with the people around us? They have a full detail or they might know everything (as per their perspective and from their point of view) about their neighbor's child but are unaware of their own child. They might be judging or talking about their neighbor's child on his/her relationships, friends circle or whatever, but are unaware of their own child's relationships or friends circle and also they think their children are the most innocent kids in the world (maybe they might be innocent but it doesn't mean you should talk and judge someone from your perspective only and who knows when can time change and how will you tolerate the judges and the talks about your own child?) Not only in this case but in every situation and case, you should not judge anyone based on your perspective without knowing their condition because time is never on one's favor only, keep this in mind.
Nobody is fully aware of what's going in one's life cause time is never constant and everyone's life keeps changing. Let me put an example of my own and how some people judge me on the same thing which happened almost 4/5 years ago. It's strange but as truth is always bitter so does the mentality of some people. I had a breakup or you can say my heart was broken back in 2015, but what some of my friends or some people believe that I haven't moved on and I am still the same boy who dedicates status or posts for her or that "Dhuki Atma" type just by seeing my growing beard or just by seeing me writing blogs. I don't know that are they in the 21st century or they are back in the 90's or '80s. One of my juniors once asked me why I am keeping my beard long, I just said I love keeping it long and he was like I don't believe you. I just know that people who had a breakup or are Dhuki Atma type keeps it long. I didn't say anything to him at that moment because debating and discussion should always be done with the wise man.
This was an experience only but there are a lot of factors where people keep judging you. I was talking with one of my friends and I just loved a thing that she mentioned. Dating number of boys is not a bad thing. You are just dating, you are just interacting for the first time face to face with coffees or dinner and trying to know each other. And if you don't like them that's okay. But what some people do is they will judge you on the basis of a number of dates you did. But guys if you don't like a person it's literally okay to date the other person, it's not a bad thing until and unless you are not in a relationship or don't like anyone.
And the most shocking thing to know will be that people will keep judging you even if you have achieved some good heights in life or even if you are doing great with life and even if you have created the history, they will never stop judging you or stop gossiping about you. IF YOU ARE DOING WRONG OR DOING NOTHING, OR EVEN IF YOU ARE DOING RIGHT OR DOING GREAT, THERE WILL BE SOME PEOPLE WHO WILL JUDGE YOU.! Because they don't have any stuff to do in their life.
"The weaker you are the louder you bark." (-Tenten) Let them bark at you. There is nothing you can do about them because they are weaker and they don't have anything to do and also they don't know you and about your situation, so it's best not to explain anything with an unwise person and waste your time. Let them bark.!! AND PRAY FOR THEM.!!!
Most of you might always hear why are you growing beard, long hair, or why are you not doing any job, or in case of girls why are you dieting, why were you late or where were you the other day or with whom. People keep asking me, are you trying to be a Muslim or are you being sainted just by seeing my growing beard but what's wrong is with you? What kind of mentality are you carrying? Do you even have any idea what are you talking about or where you are linking these things? Are you high? How can a person with a big beard become a Muslim or how can a person with a beard and long hair become a saint? I do think you must consult a psychiatrist as soon as possible.
I don't know what's wrong with the people around us? They have a full detail or they might know everything (as per their perspective and from their point of view) about their neighbor's child but are unaware of their own child. They might be judging or talking about their neighbor's child on his/her relationships, friends circle or whatever, but are unaware of their own child's relationships or friends circle and also they think their children are the most innocent kids in the world (maybe they might be innocent but it doesn't mean you should talk and judge someone from your perspective only and who knows when can time change and how will you tolerate the judges and the talks about your own child?) Not only in this case but in every situation and case, you should not judge anyone based on your perspective without knowing their condition because time is never on one's favor only, keep this in mind.
Nobody is fully aware of what's going in one's life cause time is never constant and everyone's life keeps changing. Let me put an example of my own and how some people judge me on the same thing which happened almost 4/5 years ago. It's strange but as truth is always bitter so does the mentality of some people. I had a breakup or you can say my heart was broken back in 2015, but what some of my friends or some people believe that I haven't moved on and I am still the same boy who dedicates status or posts for her or that "Dhuki Atma" type just by seeing my growing beard or just by seeing me writing blogs. I don't know that are they in the 21st century or they are back in the 90's or '80s. One of my juniors once asked me why I am keeping my beard long, I just said I love keeping it long and he was like I don't believe you. I just know that people who had a breakup or are Dhuki Atma type keeps it long. I didn't say anything to him at that moment because debating and discussion should always be done with the wise man. This was an experience only but there are a lot of factors where people keep judging you. I was talking with one of my friends and I just loved a thing that she mentioned. Dating number of boys is not a bad thing. You are just dating, you are just interacting for the first time face to face with coffees or dinner and trying to know each other. And if you don't like them that's okay. But what some people do is they will judge you on the basis of a number of dates you did. But guys if you don't like a person it's literally okay to date the other person, it's not a bad thing until and unless you are not in a relationship or don't like anyone.
And the most shocking thing to know will be that people will keep judging you even if you have achieved some good heights in life or even if you are doing great with life and even if you have created the history, they will never stop judging you or stop gossiping about you. IF YOU ARE DOING WRONG OR DOING NOTHING, OR EVEN IF YOU ARE DOING RIGHT OR DOING GREAT, THERE WILL BE SOME PEOPLE WHO WILL JUDGE YOU.! Because they don't have any stuff to do in their life.
"The weaker you are the louder you bark." (-Tenten) Let them bark at you. There is nothing you can do about them because they are weaker and they don't have anything to do and also they don't know you and about your situation, so it's best not to explain anything with an unwise person and waste your time. Let them bark.!! AND PRAY FOR THEM.!!!
This is the most harsh truth of our society
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