Until When..?

90% of us upload or share status, posts regarding rape cases, harassment, sexual abuse and many more whenever one takes place and also we quote or mention with a hashtag saying #saynotorape, #saynotoharassment, #stopsexualabuse and many more... But have we ever tried to take any small step to stop it or anything like that? Now you people must be thinking what small steps we can take right?.

Have we ever slapped the person if found committing this heinous crime for abusing or harassing anyone, be it somebody very dear to us or even a known face?
Have we ever taught our friends/elders/family members not to indulge in such kind of activities if something doesn't seem right? ( Believe me, it happens behind closed doors of our neighborhood too)
Have we ever tried to ask public transportation authorities to install CCTV camera in public vehicles? Are the victims allowed to express their grief freely? They can't because the society will directly or indirectly blame the victim at last.

Everyone says education is a must, but there are cases where the teachers are the main criminal behind those activities. ( No offense but there are some).

And we see in the news that the person is arrested for doing this, for doing that but do we know or ever tried to know that the person is punished or not? What happens once the boiling blood comes down?
Every such case is highlighted like nothing else is important for a period of time but then it vanishes.

I am not blaming anyone of you but I am blaming everyone of us including myself for not taking any such steps.
Let's make a change.
Let's raise our voices.
Let victims be free to express their pain.
Let's change the way we see things.
If something wrong is happening speak up... Our silence today will harm many of us in future.

Life: A loop of changing time.

We often hear, Life is uncertain,future is unpredictable.  Life is really an amazing surprise which can give you a lot of happiness as well as sadness both at the  time. We never know how time changes. If today time is in your favour, tomorrow or the some other day it may seem to be against you. That's also the reason why many great personalities  have quoted that time in not in ones favour forever. I have experienced many live examples where time has changed so frequently that the life of a particular person totally changed in comparison to his/her past. These changes are sometimes good as well as bad for a person. These changes bring both happiness and sadness for that particular person.  I would like to take an example of a case where the life of a newly married girl  totally changed. The case which I am discussing here is based on how time changes in a positive and in a negative way. Positive way means how happy she is because of changed time and negative way means how unhappy she is because of changed time. She feels happy because she will be spending her entire life with the person she has always loved or has  life with, and  feels unhappy because she  left her home and her parents with whom she had spend her life till date. Also she had to change the living standards as well as she had to adjust in the new family with new rules, cultures, religion and many more. 

In conclusion of the above mentioned case, we can see how the life of a newly married girl changes in a moment. I don't mean to say that one shouldn't marry or one shouldn't go with their loved ones but I mean to say that the family where she is going to spend her entire new life should help her in adjusting new things, should support her for the things she doesn't know instead of blaming her or harassing her for the things that she doesn't know or she is not perfect in.

Another case that I am discussing here is about  relationships. In relationships also you can see how time changes in positive and in a negative way. Positive way reflects how a person is happy being in a relationship were they find someone with whom they can share their feelings, happiness, problems and so on. And similarly the negative way reflects that how being in a relationship impact in someone's personal life. When you are in a relationship, you have to divide your time accordingly so that you can spend quality time with your partner. The main problem with the person in relationship is when they  doubt their partners and when they have trust issues.I have seen many people who come to me and discuss about their relationship problems and  complain about nothing being right, "I have to spend my most of the time with them, I have to clear that he/she is just my friend, "it is really hard to always explain each and everything to our partners in case a doubt arises about the things we do or about late replies and the complains continue..

As we are very much aware about the fact that everything has good impact as well as bad impact. So is the case with the relationships.  Relationships also have both positive as well as negative impact but I don't mean that one shouldn't be in a relationship. If someone is or wants to be in a relationship, they must have trust on their partners and shouldn't doubt their partners activity and also they should let their partners be free from all kind of restrictions, because if in case there is trust issue or any kind of doubt in a relationship, it won't be long lasting.

As per the above two cases, time brings positive as well as negative impact on everyone's life. It depends on us how we deal with the situations and how well we understand it. And we should never regret for any thing that goes wrong  because the time will travel from bad to good in short span of time.

“They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself.” 

― Andy Warhol