Monday 9 September 2019

Once A Looser Is Not A Loser Forever

This is my first blog on any movie or you can say this movie has captivated me to write about it. 
With due respect and honor to all the artists, director, producer, actor, actress and all the helping hands for making such a great movie "Chhichhore". Hats off to each one of you. And thank you for such an awesome movie with lots of meanings and for refreshing the memories of hostel life and college days. Indeed a must-watch movie

Without any delay, I will come straight to the point. Almost every one of us including our parents as well as everyone in this world has a lot of expectation and excitement for us that we are dreaming in the days itself what will we be doing after passing an entrance exam, or getting A+ grades in exams, getting success and many more. But what if we failed the entrance examination, we get E grades and we are unable to get the desired success? Have anyone of us thought about it? I guess the answers will be no. We are so much excited and have huge expectations that we never think about the part when things will go against us.

Our expectations and excitements are so high and we are too deep into things we will do after achieving success or passing the entrance examination that when things go against us, we assume ourselves to be looser or that was the only thing left in the earth and assume (nobody has told us till now, we are assuming it ourselves that people will say this that) will be called as a looser throughout our life. Similarly, the expectations of parents play a very important role here. This part is beautifully shown in the movie when Sushant Singh Rajput urf Anni tell his son that we will drink together after you clear the entrance exam. But what if he fails? This is where parents make a mistake. They have a really huge expectation from their child that when the child is unable to fulfill the expectations, he/she can take some wrong step and you will be regretting throughout your life. You need your child to be alive or their one-time failure?? The decision is yours.

One time failure is not a failure forever. Once a looser is not a loser forever. Practicing and participating is much more important than a result. Failing once is better than losing a life. Be grateful that you tried your level best and give your 100%. Be proud that your child tried their best to give their 100%. Don't have any expectations. Be good at the time of failures too. Life's race never ends with a failure, it needs never-ending failure so you can learn much more and have a successful life ahead.  AND A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED.
       

10 comments:

  1. I always think and worry about failures so sometimes I refuse to proceed with anything either it’s an exam or an application ( just an example) so what do you think about it, is it ok to worry about failure to take steps back?

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    1. If you refuse to proceed, then how can you learn? Failure is the first step to success.
      If you take steps back due to worry, you won't learn new ways for winning. So don't think and worry about the end result if in case you failed, you will learn new ways for not winning and if you win or succeed you will learn ways for winning.

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  2. That sounds good �� will do��

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  4. Perfectly Written..!!!
    Inspiring lines, n a good review to a top notch movie like Chhhichhore

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