Wednesday, 18 April 2018

Suicide Is Not A Solution.

Life is a race for chasing dreams. If you stop running, it means you stopped chasing your own dreams. So for being in the race of life, you should continuously run towards our dreams.
Life is so short and sweet that nobody
can predict what's going to happen next. You are not aware of the very next minute of your life, which implies you should enjoy the present moment without bothering about the other stuff and mainly the future. Just live in the present moment and keep running..

Everyone present in this beautiful world has one or the other problem. And every problem has some solutions. As everything happens for some cause, so every obstacle that comes in your way is there for teaching you some lessons. That means every problem is a new opportunity for you to learn something new. You should make mistakes again and again to grab the new opportunities which are lying there in your way to learning something extra.

According to the World Health Organization, "1 person dies every 40 seconds from suicide".
This means people are afraid to face a problem and are committing suicide, but the most important thing they miss to see in a problem is the opportunity after they face a problem. As I mentioned earlier every problem has some solution that will end up being something positive for you.
  
Suicide is the act of intentionally causing one's own death. Suicide is not a solution for everything. It's just a process of running away from reality and from the problem or the obstacles arising in your way to success.


Running from the reality:- When you don't want to face a problem and you think suicide is the only solution for it. You should have the ability to face the reality of your life so that you can solve it out in a proper way. As I mentioned above, everything happens for some cause and it will lead to a fruitful result. So running from the reality is a cause and being able to face it and solve it out is a fruitful result.

Running from the problem:- If someone is unable to handle the situation or unable to read the situation, he/she wants to run away. Sometimes this may cause the death of the following person as well. You must have the courage to handle the situation and read the situation by staying positive and by remaining calm in whatever be the situation.

Suicide is not a solution. It's just a process of causing harm to one's own body and the entire family (parents, siblings, friends, and society). No person concerned feels happy after the death of someone close to their heart. But everyone regrets and feels sorry for their deeds(if any) after someone's death. So you must share the situation in which you are living with others, as sharing helps you to reduce the amount of pressure you are having. You must open up your problem with your close ones so that they can direct you in the right way.

I would like to share some real examples of my life. I know a few people who committed suicide after not being able to meet the expectation of the parents, a breakup, being cheated by their partners, friends, harassment cases, failure in life, and few more. But literally, I am telling you after giving up life for such silly reasons thinking you end up the problem, you just bring a huge amount of problem and harm to their parents and loved ones. This act of yours doesn't make anyone happy dear. They just regret throughout their lives for not being able to help you out. These mentioned problems expectation of the parents, a breakup, being cheated by your partners, friends, harassment cases, failure in life everything has some or the other solution but not the suicide. If you believe suicide was the only solution for every problem, then Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, Michael Jordan,  Abraham Lincoln,  JK Rowling and many more like them would not be known to the world for their greatness.  Each one of them has failed for more than one can ever think of trying. 
       
Everything you do or think is all about your mentality. If you take every difficult situation in a positive way, you are able to face it easily but if you take it in a negative way, you won't be able to come out of it or have guts to face it. So being able to control your mentality also helps to solve out the many problems in life(once apply this it's really helpful i.e thinking and staying positive in whatever be the situation, will release the pressure and helps you to work in a proper way without any fear in mind).

SUICIDE IS NOT A SOLUTION!!!
SAY NO TO SUICIDE!!
STAY POSITIVE STAY CALM
CHASE THE RACE OF LIFE...

Saturday, 6 January 2018

Depression

One of my friend suggested me to write something about depression..
Depression is a mental disorders characterized by depressed mood or loss of interest in activities. A depressed person is one who wants to be alone, far away form society in their own man-made world. They just over think about things.
Depression is caused by over thinking, stressful life, breakups, lack of job, lack of happiness. These are some of the causes of depression according to my short study. A person who is over thinking a small incidents of his/her past life or present may be depressed because he/she is not able to move on from those incidents and they are just thinking it again and again which is making them weak and sad as well..
And also not only because of past and present but depression may also be seen in those peoples who have no aim in there life, who are living without destination..
Stressful life and lack of happiness may make any individual depressed easily. Happiness is one of the most important part of human life. The person who is unable to create a stress free life, he/she will be thinking about the stresses and problems of their life and a time will come when they can be depressed.
Breakups and lack of job. When a person is unable to move on from his/her breakup, he/she shall be thinking about it whole day and night. They are just evolving around their past memories and promises which doesn't let them to move on and which can create a situation of depression.
People having no job have a lot to problems and pressure from their family and society. At this stage they are just wanting a job. If they are unable to find any, they have to listen a lot form the outsiders and in this situation they are stressed and can be depressed.
So these were some causes how someone can be depressed. Now some solutions for it.
As I mentioned in my second blog about the power of our subconscious mind, our subconscious mind plays a vital role in life. If we are taking our stressful life, breakups, lack of happiness and job positively, we will be able to stay away from depression. For an example, if we take our stressful life positively i.e a day will come when we will be having a stress-free life, we can avoid depression. Same is in other cases as well...
Depression can cause death as well.
So stay positive. Let your subconscious mind be positive and avoid depression by positivity..

Wednesday, 10 May 2017

Nowadays everyone is saying this famous line i.e JUST GO WITH FLOW.........because no one is aware about what they are doing and what they have to do. I personally feel that is such a big problem even in my life also. Sometimes it get very hard for me to decide my goals and objectives and i really feel so bad about what's going on my life. I need someone to help me and give me some opinions what should i do?????????

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